We tend to meet a ladies man once in a while. They can be popular guys we know or some stranger with the most appealing personality we meet. With a notorious name and face, there is an advantage. We know what kind of person he is, we’ll think twice before getting involved. But with a new guy possessing the most solemn face and the nicest words, that’s a dilemma.
How can we recognize a ladies man?
Ladies men are not the best looking; they are not the most intelligent or the rich types of males. They seem to be ordinary men with
one common denominator- the expertise on how to deal with women.Ladies men are friendly
Simple men just gives a nod in greeting or rather they don’t appear to see female while in a vicinity. It’s the gender shy thing. A ladies man on the other hand, is friendlier. He usually engages women to talk.
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Some ladies men can be smart while the others can be really talkative. The thing is, they know what to interest women with.
Sweet talker
He is either the silent or the loud type. He can flirt easily and say the most charming words that can turn female around. Through this talent, he normally gets what he wants.
A sympathizing ear
A ladies man can be really good at listening. He knows how to say the right things to soothe women, even if he is not really sincere.
More female friends
Although he has male friends, a ladies man is closer to women friends as if they seem to be females themselves. A ladies man has more female friends than
males too. Two reasons: Its either his male group is disgusted or jealous with him or men consider him as gay.Why say no to a ladies man?
Guys like the ladies man seems to be a dream come true. A perfect person to spend your life with, however he can never be yours alone. A ladies man would claim it’s not his fault that he is desirable. It’s not his mistake if he is lovable or charming. But, can you trust a ladies man not to have an affair to another woman when he is surrounded with them?
A ladies man is not something women would want. Females would want their partners to be awesome- smart, understanding, romantic and all. But no woman wants to be the first, the second or the last but the only one.
So, if you are falling in love with a ladies man, better think twice.
© Phoenix Montoya @ February 15, 2011
*This article is also published at Triond under the pen name of the author - Phoenix Montoya.